I have a string of bad dates. is this usual? I am so stressed!?

this is going on for about 3 yrs. Mr A farted on our 3rd date and all he wanted to give me was oral sex and was calling me at work constantly. said he was dumped by 10 other girls. I was the 11th. Mr B dated me 4 times and was a cold fish and said 'all women are whores'. My date with mr C seemed like a business interview; he said a lot of lies and disappeared. when i called him to say 'what's the matter with you' he got hysterical. Mr D said 'I thank God I found you'. Problem was he couldn't keep the erection at the moment of penetration. Confessed he had intercourse with more than a 100 whores. All these men were well educated from 'respectable' families and rather cute, in their thirties. I don't know what's up, what I know is that I CAN'T GET NO SATISFACTION. has this ever happened to anyone else or I am jinxed or something? help...

I have a string of bad dates. is this usual? I am so stressed!?
i don't thik you're jinxed- i just think you're attracting or attracted to theses guys for a reason- besides thier life resume being good ( you said "All these men were well educated from 'respectable' families and rather cute, in their thirties") what else drew you to them???


maybe find someone that feels right in person even if they do't fit your ideal resume... try someone older, try someone not from the right family, etc... break your cycle by doing something different.


nothing changes if nothing changes...


good luck!
Reply:perfect! see, find someone who can satisfy you sexually- thats your main criteria- they may turn out to be the opposite of these other ideals~


good luck!!! i hope you find someone who blows your mind!!! Report It

Reply:maybe it's just bad luck =(
Reply:Sounds you're a bit desperate. Men are not good actors, most people can tell straight off who are the losers and steer clear. You just seem to want to date without giving pre-thought to what kind of guy you're dating
Reply:Try dating a country boy lol.They're not always as smart but maybe a little more honest and great in bed.
Reply:I say, keep on looking girl ;).. They say it could help to define what kind of men is best for you.. so you can identify the kinds that are right for you.. maybe it could help not to 'fall' on 'misters alphabet' no more.. :)
Reply:thats clearly a radio shack question I might add.